My (future) Boyfriend's Girlfriend
It is entirely common in this age of dating to go into all of it with a 'menu-mentality.' I am guilty of it myself. What do I mean by 'menu-mentality?' I mean striking off into the realm of dating with the inevitable list: I want a partner who... What follows are all the traits we are hoping to find in another. We conjure an ideal that we then are looking to pull off the turn-table-app-buffet for our edification. Recently it has been laid plain to me through meditation and introspection that I want to change my approach completely. I want to seek to bring forth the things in myself that I want a partner to be seeking out. I want to work on the things I actually have any real power over and impact on. So, for the next while, I am going to apply my energy in the following way; I want to be a partner who... I want to be a partner in a relationship that is generous . To strengthen this area I will work on giving more of myself in more ways. I will donate my mon...